Sunday, July 22, 2012

Baby Animals, Fried Food, Aerialists. . . Just Another Business Trip


I have a client in Calgary right now and we purposely planned a workshop during the Calgary Stampede, a ten-day celebration of Western heritage, agriculture, music and gluttonous food products. 

Some highlights:
Hangin' with The Duke
Baby sheep. My voice went up a few octaves.

Entrance to the Calgary Stampede

One of the Show Bands that popped up around the park to play and dance

Chuckwagon Races (NASCAR with Conestogas!)

Have hat, will Stampede.
These guys were impressive.
The night show surprised us--singing, dancing, gymnastics on bicycles, pyro, aerialists, and more.

Cirque de Stampede!
They were doing the same moves as the stage performers while swinging above the crowd.
This greeted us just inside the gate and there were hundreds more like it.

This is Fried Kool-Aid. Batter with a lot of Kool-Aid mixed it and then fried. Quite yummy.

We heard a lot about the Mini Donuts before we got there. 

The Mini Donuts lived up to the hype. Hot and delicious.




We Had a Picnic and Idina Menzel Showed Up!

We love Ravinia, but man is it far North for two South Side Mice! While it took most of a day, our recent trek to Ravinia to hear Idina Menzel, Marvin Hamlisch and the Chicago Symphony Orchestra was worth every second.

And, even better, we got to spend the afternoon and evening with dear friends Ronald (finally living in Chicago!) and Rebecca. We had an awesome time together listening to great music and laughing at Matt and me as we both spilled and broke things like drinks and chairs. And we enjoyed sharing our memories and love of RENT and Wicked (Idina's most famous Broadway performances). OK, so maybe Matt wasn't super talkative at that part of the conversation, but he agrees Idina's smoking hot and insanely talented.

me, Ronald, Rebecca and Matt before the show

We did not run out of food.
We had lawn tickets but we went and stood outside the pavilion to catch a glimpse of Idina. She was a complete and bawdy riot--swearing and making hilariously unscripted (or at least seemingly so) observations to the audience. After Idina made a particularly off-color comment, Marvin Hamlisch said, "huh, you wouldn't think [given her bawdy language] this was a 5:00 show. . . I mean. . .there are people sitting out there eating M&Ms!"

She was battling a cold that had left her with a lot of phlegm on her vocal cords and she struggled a bit through the performance. She still hit most of her notes and belted out an amazing set. She  brought a lot of folks from the audience to sing parts of some of her hits with her, and this is video from her encore. I just love it and how generous and enthusiastic Idina was. If you watch, be sure to stay to the end--the girls in it are adorable and the song gives me good chills.

Belated 4th of July (Or, A Very Early Tailgate)

We sure do love tailgating, and the heat of this summer has made us even more excited for football weather. John's birthday/Father's Day present was a Northwestern tailgate tent for us to use at the seven (7!) NU home games during the upcoming 2012 season. So, why not go ahead and set it up in our backyard as a trial run?

I had to work on the Fourth (Canadian clients!) so we did a belated weekend tailgate the Saturday after and set up the tailgate tent. It's awesome and there will be lots of room for friends to join us!

Setting up the tent


I might be ready for some (Wildcat) football. It makes me laugh that, without planning to do so, Matt and I REGULARLY wear competing U of Chicago and NU shirts, respectively. See also:

OK, so this one was planned. About this time, seven years ago, we were taking Chicago/NU photos
for  use in wedding-related materials.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Celebrating Carol

I haven't blogged in several months, as I knew I couldn't write another post until I shared a tribute to Carol. We lost Matt's mom in March and it's been difficult finding out what life's like without hearing her voice and seeing her smile in real time.

Last weekend, Matt, John and I went to Montana to celebrate her life and join in a memorial with her family and friends in Butte.

At the memorials in Munster (IN) and Butte (MT), I shared a version of the following eulogy:

Hi, as most of you know, I'm Diane, and I have had the honor of being Carol's daughter in law the last seven years. 


Before I met Matt, I didn't think I would find myself being a daughter in law to anyone. 


And before I met Carol, I didn't think I would find that my mother in law would be one of my favorite people. 


When I met Carol, I found her unbelievably sweet and humble and I was delighted to find a wry sense of humor that cut through the sweetness like ice cream on pie. 


I certainly didn't think I would later find out that she was the first woman ever to get a master's in metallurgical engineering from Montana Tech. 

But that's Carol. All quiet tenacity and good-natured toughness. Humble, but driven. 


Carol was born in Butte, Montana on November 1, 1948 to Ryan and Jeanette Trythall. She was one of four siblings: two boys, two girls. Brothers Bruce and Jerry and little sister Nellie. The family was close, sharing a warm but very cozy home by 2012 standards, with only one bathroom for six people.  


After high school, Carol attended Montana Tech and pursued an engineering degree. Male professors suggested that her seat might better be filled by a man, but she kept on. 


In a lab at Montana Tech, she met her future husband, John. Matt and I pilgrimaged a few years back and stood outside the lab door, the site of the meeting of two amazing minds and two generous hearts. John and Carol built a love and devotion to one another that is truly exemplary. 


John’s family welcomed Carol with open arms and of course fell in love with her too, as anyone with any sense did. Education and job opportunities took Carol and John from Montana, to Idaho, Missouri, Utah and eventually settling in Indiana. 


Along the way, Matt joined the family. Carol was thrilled to become a mother and supported everything her sensitive, talented, outrageously tall son took on. She's embued him with her sweetness, quiet tenacity, and commitment to showing up for those he loves and what is important. He works hard, as his parents showed him. 


Carol gave her heart and soul to her work in the steel industry and built many lasting friendships that continued after she retired. Carol never took her family or friends for granted. She was a fierce friend, the empathetic soul of her family, and a beautiful spirit to all who met her. 


Author Eric Hoffer wrote that "rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength." In the decade I've known her, I never once saw Carol imitate strength at someone else's expense. Instead, she taught everyone she touched about how to live with a generous, quiet strength. Everything she did, everything she stands for is about gently but firmly pushing forward, past when most of us would have dropped out, stopped trying, or at least had a moment when we looked up and questioned God or the universe for doling out an unfair share of challenges. 

They say so much of life is showing up. Carol showed up for her family, showed up for her education and her career and her colleagues. She showed up for her life. She showed up for each moment no matter how difficult. In the last year, even though it was hard and painful for her to get in and out of a car, Carol showed up for us even if it hurt. Backyard barbeques, birthdays, Thanksgiving, she fought for the traditions we all cherish. 


We have a longstanding and very special tradition of holiday tea at a different hotel or restaurant downtown Chicago each year—Carol, my mom and I started going in 2005 and would make our reservations in late summer to get our spot for December. My mom and I talked and we thought we'd just have a private little tea at Carol's condo last year so she and the guys didn't have to go to all the trouble of getting downtown and in and out of the car. But she very sweetly overruled us. She wanted to have the full experience, so we did. We went to the historic Palmer House hotel, had our tea in the balcony, and even chatted with beautiful ballet dancers in full Nutcracker costume. A few days before Carol passed, I learned that she had shared the experience with John and her dear friend Karen and emphasized the impression the male ballet dancer's tight tights had made on her! There's that wry sense of humor again. Needless to say, our tea tradition will continue in Carol's honor and I know she'll show up each year to join us in spirit.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Carol's Climbers Hustle Up the Hancock Once Again!

Carol's Climbers did it again! 2012 marked our third year participating in the Hustle Up the Hancock, an athletic event (stunt?) benefiting the Respiratory Health Association of Metropolitan Chicago. We did the Full Climb, which meant 94 floors, or 1,632 stairs.

We participated in the event in honor of my mother-in-law, Carol, who has battled a complex lung disease for about two decades. Matt had an important work trip that kept him from climbing this year, but Carol's niece (Matt's cousin) Carrie and her friend Angel came all the way from Montana to join me in the effort. Carrie did the half climb with us back in 2010.

Luckily, Matt was able to spend time with Carrie and Angel Friday night and part of Saturday. We had lunch at Joy Yee in Chinatown on Saturday afternoon after exploring the wonderful tea and trinket shops and bakeries in the neighborhood. We all enjoyed our food and our crazy drinks!


Then Sunday morning we got ready to climb! Approximately 4,000 climbers do it every year--and the full climb sells out in about an hour! Angel, Carrie and me waiting before the climb


We all did it and felt great when we got to the top. You can see I was ready to celebrate as I crossed the finish line (balloon arch)!


Carrie, me and Angel with our medals at the top


Mom and Dad were our cheer squad once again! I appreciate their support so much!!!


After we waited in the long elevator down and popped by the expo for our pictures and unofficial times, Mom and Dad drove us gals to Munster where we all had dinner with Carol and John. We had an awesome dinner of lasagna, garlic bread, salad and two scrumptious pies. Oh, and don't forget the homemade apple cider! All a wonderful celebration of our day, Carol, and Carrie's visit.

Aunt Rona's Big Surprise!

My Mom and Aunt Rona outdid themselves this time! My Aunt Rona lives in Texas, so she doesn't get together with the other three Schmiedeknecht sisters (in Indiana and Michigan) as often as any of them would like. Aunt Dawn and Aunt Rae both have birthdays in October, so Mom and Rona cooked up a plan to surprise them last fall. And they actually kept the secret until February! Very tough to do, but well worth it when we all got together on a Saturday for lunch, and guess who showed up! It was a great moment and they got to spend time together the rest of a long weekend. All four sisters together and they mostly stayed out of trouble! :)

Aunt Rae hugging Aunt Rona


Four sisters: Aunt Rae, Aunt Dawn, Mom, and Aunt Rona

Mr. K Honored and Appreciated

A few weeks back, Mr. K was honored as part of Homewood-Flossmoor Faculty and Staff Appreciation Day. During a basketball game each year, the athletes each get to pick a faculty or staff member to honor. Several students approached Mr. K this year, but the first to ask was a varsity cheerleader.

The original date of the game was snowed out, so they did it the following Friday night. Mrs. K. was (and is) very proud! GO BIG RED!

We even made a quick stop to Mr. K's classroom, where all that "shaping of young minds" takes place!

Sunday, January 8, 2012

ROAD TRIP! (Part 4: Houston: Gameday and New Year's Eve)

Late Thursday night, we arrived in Houston, feeling like we'd already had a full trip's worth of experiences! We stayed in the Big Ten hotel, so we were treated to lots of purple--signage, balloons, even neckties on the staff. Fun stuff.
Friday morning, we headed out to the Houston Museum District. What a treat it is--more than a dozen museums within walking distance. Our first destination was the Museum of Natural Science. It was interesting in that the exhibits were highly relevant to their Texas home--it makes sense, yet I wasn't necessarily expecting that. They had exhibits on dinosaurs, gems, mollusks, energy, and local wildlife. Needless to say, I was done quicker than Matt, but I can always kill time in a gift shop.
We also spent some time in their Butterfly Center, a three- or four-story simulated rainforest under glass. Gorgeous! Matt even found one with a similar outfit to what he was wearing.


Next we walked about a mile and a half to the other end of the Museum District, to the Rothko Chapel. I was intrigued by the description of it and wanted to check it out. I don't know if I've ever been inside a building that was more serene. You can't take photos inside (and that's a really good call on their part), so you can google it if you're curious. But really you should just go.

The patrons behind the Rothko Chapel, Dominique and John de Menil, had an unbelievable personal art collection, which is now housed at The Menil Collection. Picasso, Rauschenberg, Warhol, a huge Magritte collection, and so many more. I'd heard of the Menil, but had no idea just how significant it was.
The next morning, it was Saturday, New Year's Eve, and GAMEDAY! We headed to Reliant Stadium for the Meineke Car Care Bowl of Texas. We went early, so we could check out the tailgating scene a bit and experience TexFest, the parking lot festival before the game. The 'Cats purple turnout was decent - I figure about 20% of the fans were for NU, which isn't bad considering we were in Aggie country.

We had a good time, ran into some people we knew, and got a lot of thumbs up on my Wildcathead. We saw a few others, but not many. We also had several older Texas gentlemen approach us before the game to welcome us to their state and wish us luck on the game. After the game we got some very genteel "good game" type sentiments as well.

As I mentioned in the first post, we lost. So I'm not really interested in recapping the game at all. We had awesome Club level seats, enjoyed our stadium grub, and held on some hope until nearly the end of the game. We also enjoyed watching the bands--ours did their Beatles tribute at halftime, and then gave us a treat by turning "LOVE" into "GO NU" at the end. The Aggie band is HUGE and ridiculously good. I enjoyed watching them, very impressive stuff.


After the game, we went back and took a nap as an insurance policy that we'd see midnight. We had hoped it would be a "victory nap" but c'est la vie. We'd had plenty of excitement and neither of us are big on New Year's Eve revelry, so we went to a Vietnamese restaurant called Mai's that came up when we googled "Anthony Bourdain Houston." It was AWESOME. If we had Mai's in Chicago, we'd be there every couple weeks I'm sure. It was very low-key, too, which we loved. Other than the wait staff's New Year's party hats, you'd never have known it was a holiday. Matt had a soft shell crab dish and I had a pork chop with a fried egg. OH MY GOODNESS was it good. Definitely worth writing home--or a blog post, at least--about.


And that's all she wrote! We left early Sunday morning, drove about 12 or 13 hours to a small town in Missouri, got up early Monday morning, and were home around 1 PM. We had a great, great time and can't wait for the next trip.

ROAD TRIP! (Part 3: Little Rock and Shreveport)

Many, many, many years ago, we were driving from Indiana to Texas to visit relatives. My cousin Ryan (Sr.) was with us and, as we were approaching Little Rock, AR, he said, very enthusiastically, "I love Little Rock!" Mind you, he'd never been there and couldn't tell us what he loved about it, but he was excited. We haven't let him live this down, poor guy, and it kept coming to mind as we approached Little Rock.

Well, from the 18 hours or so we spent there, I have to say I agree with Ryan. I love Little Rock too.

Our main attraction and destination was Central High School, a National Historic Site and Visitors Center run by the National Park Service. The high school is still an operating high school, but it also has an important place in civil rights history.

From the NPS web site:
On the morning of September 23, 1957 nine African-American teenagers stood up to an angry crowd protesting integration in front of Little Rock's Central High as they entered the school for the first time. This event, broadcast around the world, made Little Rock the site of the first important test of the U.S. Supreme Court’s historic Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka decision.

This was one of the top recommendations on TripAdvisor and for very good reason. If you get a chance, do this. Matt and I learned so much and the park service staffers were so enthusiastic and passionate about their work, it was beyond infectious. It was a good thing there was a counter between us, or I probably would've hugged them.

The Visitor Center isn't particularly large, but it is extremely well done and packed with great insights about civil rights history and the lasting impact of pivotal events and people. The exhibits said so much--the picture below is of the stark difference between white classrooms and black classrooms at the time, brought to life by the substantial door on the left and the screen door on the right.
The school is a beautiful work of architecture and the grounds are lovely. They give tours of the school, but only when it's open, and of course it was closed for Winter Break. The park service guys recommended we come back again, and I'd really like to, to do the building tour. But just walking around the grounds and this formidable building allowed us to try to imagine what it was like that year. We can't, really, but it's quite something even to try.

The facade reads "AMBITION" "PERSONALITY" "OPPORTUNITY" "PREPARATION"
At the suggestion of the park service guys, we drove over to the Capitol building to see a group of statues of the Little Rock Nine. They explained that they are at the Capitol, in a position that would be in the direct line of sight of Governor Orval E. Faubus, the man who "directly questioned the sanctity of the federal court system and the authority of the United States Supreme Court's desegregation ruling while nine African-American high school students sought an education at the all-white Little Rock Central High School." He was the prime instigator for the resistance to desegregation, so it is particularly fitting that the statues are where they are.

We stayed in the lovely Capital Hotel, close to the River Market and Clinton Library/Museum. While the River Market is no Pike Place Market, I can imagine it would be nice in the summertime. There were ice skaters and funnel cakes and not too much else happening the evening we were there. We walked down to the Clinton Library/Museum--we knew we wouldn't have a chance to tour it, but we got to see the cool building and impressive grounds before dinner.

We let TripAdvisor lead us to the Flying Fish, a casual place that is clearly loved by locals and tourists alike. They do a lot of different kinds of seafood a lot of different ways. The hush puppies were AMAZING, as were the fried oysters. Matt had some good catfish too. The place is a little goofy--people send in their fish pictures, and they have a wall of those "Billy Bass" singing fish things--but the food was great. By the time we left, the line was outside.


After a good night's rest in a great hotel, we hit the road for Shreveport, LA, where we arrived in time for lunch, another great seafood meal. TripAdvisor told us to visit the Norton Gallery, so we did. This is a family's varied collection of paintings, sculpture, guns, dolls, glass work, tapestries, and more. And they had a special exhibit of plein-air paintings of national parks, which was great too. My favorite piece in the collection was a sculpture called "Fragelina," by Attilio Piccirilli (American, 1923).
Little did we know that the grounds behind the gallery were a little slice of heaven. We had such nice weather for almost all of the trip, and since it was Louisiana and very mild, it was like a pretty late September day as we walked the paths, checking out the sculptures worked into the landscapes.



And then. . . the Mattmobile headed for Houston!